To change for the better you will need to change your perspective in life. The fact that you have landed on this self-help site could mean that you are ready to alter your mindset. It also tells you that you are ready to evolve further.
This is because only those who are ready to evolve further can make these changes. It has nothing to do with how good a person you are, your IQ, or social status.
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The evolution of human beings does not take place through the achievement of theoretical knowledge. Evolution happens only when a person experiences sufficient real life events causing that person to make a shift in consciousness. You cannot expect a change for the better unless this process takes place.
This line from Albert Einstein says is all:
“Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”
The process of evolution, of course, spans through several lifetimes, but as people become more evolved it seems to get easier and faster. There is truth in the statement “the better it gets the better it gets“.
Life is a school. Challenges are the absolutely essential practical lessons that we must experience from in this school in order to progress further. Having a theoretical understanding of an issue is not of any value–until that issue becomes close and personal through direct experience. Not only, but there must also be a clear understanding of all the underlying factors that are causing that unpleasant experience to recur.
Once again, this quote from Albert Einstein explains this point clearly
“Information is not knowledge. The only source of knowledge is experience.”
Success is the reward we get for solving these life challenges or lessons. It is the “graduation” certificate we receive for (relentlessly) having explored and applied various techniques to solve the challenge.
So-called “failures” are clear messages from life telling us that there is more we need to learn about a certain topic.
“Failures”, when correctly interpreted, spur us on to more research and study and exploration, with the reassuring knowledge that, sooner or later, we will get to solve that riddle.
How quickly we graduate from each stage of the School Of Life depends on our level of evolution and the level of evolution of our parents.
Children who are encouraged in a positive and supporting way to solve riddles and challenges, and enthusiastically rewarded for finding the “solution” to their challenges, will fare very well in the School Of Life.
Children who are scolded, reprimanded or even ridiculed for making “mistakes” end up badly. They are literally programmed for failure. I will not energise this paragraph with my attention any further.
Most of us did not have Zen Masters as parents and many of us are paying the price for improper parenting, and consequently lagging behind in the School Of Life.
The good news is that There Is A Way to fix this once and for all. I created TADA with the intent that whoever uses it should experience a change for the better–and most importantly, enjoy a change for better living.
Using the Thereisaway Alternative De-Stressing Approach (TADA) to do better in the School Of Life.
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Depending on your current level of evolution, real life events will occur which will cause you to identify the undesirable qualities afflicting you which are preventing you from attracting sincere, trusting, unselfish loving people. Naturally,
Naturally, the more evolved you are the easier will be for you to identify these faulty programs–without descending into self-judgement, guilt and other unhelpful and destructive ego related reactions.
More evolved people respond to adversities by going inward, searching for faulty programs and ego generated barriers. Less evolve
Less evolved people will invariably adopt a victim mentality, blame other people, offer excuses, go into guilt, shame and other unhelpful practices. For this reason, such people attract drama in their lives like honey attract bees–we have all been there and done it at some point in our existence.
The good news is that every human being is relentlessly becoming more evolved. It is impossible to avoid evolution; so even if you are at the lowest point of evolution today–it is only temporary.
I updated this how to change for the better post on the 15 June 2019.